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Have you ever watched yourself masturbate in front of the mirror? I once tried but I really wasn't into watching myself. I felt as though I was performing for a viewer. I believe masturbation in its purest form happens when you get lost in the action - completely oblivious to your surroundings and the world around you.
Don't get me wrong - I don't think there is anything wrong with masturbating in front of a mirror - especially for the exhibitionists among us. All I am saying here is that it doesn't work for me. The only time I spread my thighs in front of a mirror was to have a look at my lovely folds and admire the beauty of my womanhood.
Unlike men, women don't have their genitals hanging outside for them to see whenever they are naked in front of the mirror. To get a really good look we have to sit (or lie) back and spread our legs - w i d e. There is something thrilling about seeing your own naughty bits. ;-)
Here is what Emily* (someone in my inner circle of naughtiness) shares :"I have of course seen many erotic images in photos, in movies and in person. I have also explored and given pleasure to one or two ladies in my time. Very enjoyable......
But there is nothing like looking at your own in the mirror and seeing your own fingers explore every crevice, every fold and the glossy shine of that most sacred of entrances. When I see myself in the mirror, it does not make me want to masturbate, it makes me wish I was a man so I could feel what it is like to be able to push my hardness into that tight, warm and delicious passage of mine!"
Narcissistic? Maybe. Raw honesty - definitely.
Emily goes on to explain..." Yes, I have thought about what it must feel like to spread my own thighs and make love to myself. I love the taste of myself on the lips of another.... I revel in it!"
As for me, masturbation is mainly a cure for insomnia. Works like a charm. I use different methods depending on my mood. It's good to have options. I sometimes read from one of my favorite erotic novels or short stories and use my skilled finger and sometimes a clitoral toy or two. I very rarely penetrate myself with a toy as I prefer the real thing - however I don't mind if someone else uses a toy to penetrate me - but I digress. I do love my toys and will talk about them in another blog. But yes, when I spread my thighs and choose to expertly take myself to that point of breathless, heart-pounding ecstasy - my pinnacle of personal eroticism that I gave to myself - there is nothing like it.
Emily continues... "I love to be able to give this pleasure to another woman - to be able to take her "there" many times, in new ways, with my hands, my mouth, my words and maybe using something from my toy bag. To be able to bring about those powerful contractions and delicious nectar from between the thighs of another is truly a beautiful thing between two expressive and passionate people. You see, I don't mind being your mirror and watching you spread your thighs....... "
There is nothing more natural to help a woman relax than masturbation and every woman should feel free to be able to give herself as much pleasure as she needs. If you need to give yourself an excuse, tell yourself it's healthier than taking a pill, getting drunk or getting high - and of course it is safe sex!
* As always, names have been changed.
